January 26, 2024
Today marked another day since you've been gone, aboh. It's surreal, standing here by your grave, seeing your name etched into the stone, yet still unable to fully grasp the reality of your absence. How can you be gone when it feels like you're still here, lingering in the corners of my mind and in every familiar corner of our home?
But even as I grapple with this disbelief, I'm confronted with the harsh truth each time my body betrays me. The numbness from the medication seems to cocoon me from the rawness of my emotions, yet my physical self bears the weight of my grief in ways I can't ignore. Headaches throb incessantly, my appetite vanishes, and the fatigue is unrelenting. It's as if my body is rebelling against the numbness, desperately trying to feel something, anything, to validate this loss.
I miss you, Aboh. More than words can express. Each day without you feels like navigating through a thick fog, unsure of where to step next or how to move forward. But amidst the pain and confusion, there's a flicker of solace in knowing that even though you're physically gone, your presence lives on in the memories we shared and the love that still binds us together.
I wish I could find the words to convey the depth of my sorrow, but for now, all I can do is hold onto the fragments of you that remain within me and try to make sense of this new reality we find ourselves in. Until we meet again, rest in peace, aboh..
Forever missing you,
Adek
It's dark and lonely here.
My hands are shaking,
There's a voice in my head saying I couldn't do it,
Then there's another voice in my head, battling hard with the demon inside.
I wish I can do better in life, I wish I can do more in life, I wish I was happy, I wish.
I know I have to say I am because what you beliefs, will attract rite?
I know I have to stop complaining, get up and be stronger than before.
I know I have to keep on smiling, knowing that everything is temporary including happiness and sadness.
I know I have to keep on fighting, I know.
But sometimes, it's hard. It's too painful.
No, I'm not giving up, for all I know if I do, everything is over.
I would fail and live a life full of despair and misery.
It's dark and lonely here.
All I can feel is emptiness and guilt.
The guilt where I kept on doing the wrong things instead of right.
I keep going back when I need to move forward.
I always get lost when I already have a map.
It's tiring.
So I'm going to rest, taking my time to clear out my space,
Reflect what is right and wrong,
Ask me those what, why, when and how for myself,
It seems lonely, but the lonely moment is when I expect too much in the short term,
It's lonely when I seek for my worth/validation in other people.
I don't blame myself because I know sometimes I need love,
But my forgetful ass always tends to forget that the only love I have to long for is Allah.
And, the happiness that I'm seeking is within me.
I don't blame myself.
I did well, and I, for now, I need to rest, preparing myself for a better journey to come tomorrow.
I'm a warrior.
My hands are shaking,
There's a voice in my head saying I couldn't do it,
Then there's another voice in my head, battling hard with the demon inside.
I wish I can do better in life, I wish I can do more in life, I wish I was happy, I wish.
I know I have to say I am because what you beliefs, will attract rite?
I know I have to stop complaining, get up and be stronger than before.
I know I have to keep on smiling, knowing that everything is temporary including happiness and sadness.
I know I have to keep on fighting, I know.
But sometimes, it's hard. It's too painful.
No, I'm not giving up, for all I know if I do, everything is over.
I would fail and live a life full of despair and misery.
It's dark and lonely here.
All I can feel is emptiness and guilt.
The guilt where I kept on doing the wrong things instead of right.
I keep going back when I need to move forward.
I always get lost when I already have a map.
It's tiring.
So I'm going to rest, taking my time to clear out my space,
Reflect what is right and wrong,
Ask me those what, why, when and how for myself,
It seems lonely, but the lonely moment is when I expect too much in the short term,
It's lonely when I seek for my worth/validation in other people.
I don't blame myself because I know sometimes I need love,
But my forgetful ass always tends to forget that the only love I have to long for is Allah.
And, the happiness that I'm seeking is within me.
I don't blame myself.
I did well, and I, for now, I need to rest, preparing myself for a better journey to come tomorrow.
I'm a warrior.
Letting go.
A simple word, but hard to do.
Right now, i was struggling to learn this lesson in my life to let go.
To be happy, to achieve what i want to do, to move forward, all i have to do is to let go of the sufferings, the past, the burdens, the people in my life that have negative energy.
It's easier to say than done, but i decided that this is a new changes for me, to let go , and to gain new perspectives in life.
Let go, by doing that it takes a lot of acceptance, courage, commitment and consistency.
With practice, in shaa Allah, you'll learn the beautiful behind this word.
By letting go, you accept that people do wrong, and hurt you and you forgives them. You let go of the burdens, of the sufferings and accept it. Remember this, when Allah removes a person out of your life, accept and be thankful to Allah. Alhamdulillah, He saves you from the wrong person. He saves you from prolong sufferings. Always trust in Him and His plans, better outcomes will come for you. You'll achieve inner peace in your heart and happiness in long term, in shaa Allah.
Learn to accept that some people are merely just visitors in your life. Their visits may last a few months or many years. And remember that life is like a school, it teaches you many lessons throughout your life. It's up to you, whether to learn from it, or to run. It doesn't matter how far you go, the cycle will continues until you learn your lessons. So, accept and learn from your sufferings/ difficulties.
Always self reflect yourself, focus on yourself more to be the better version of you. Learn to let go even it's hard. Always seek light, and even if you falls down, you always can get up and try again.
Every situation in our life is temporary. When life is good, make sure you enjoy the moment fully because it's temporary. And same goes when life is not good, remember that it will not last forever and better days are coming.
Always try to change to be better, letting go is the first step for you to move forward. Hey, it's ok if you're sad, it's okay. You've got this, ok? Learn to accept and learn from this failure, let go and by let go i mean let go and leave everything to Allah. I know it's hard, but with efforts on prayers, and to yourself, YOU CAN LET GO AND MOVE FORWARD IN YOUR LIFE. Have faith.
Hey, hello, how are yaah?
Have you guys ever go to drug store ( watson / guardian and etc...) and when you goes to the beauty section, where there are all kinds for face products.... you feel the need to buy, to try for your skin and still, your skin is not improving? You want to improve your skin, to make it more healthier, glossier but still, the "right" one hasn't been found yet. Well, i felt the same way too.
Okay, so lemme ask you "DO YOU ACTUALLY KNOW YOUR SKIN TYPE?"When it comes to skincare, there's one thing you should know that everyone has different skin. It's important to know what your skin type is as it guides you to use the correct products for your skin.
* This post is for people out there that is a beginner in skincare routine *
SKIN TYPE TEST
You can try this test when you're free for the next 2 hours, where you don't have to leave the house-
First, wash your face off with your USUAL cleanser. Pat your face dry with a clean towel. AND, this is the important part : do not touch your face at all for the next 2 hours. At the end of the 2 hours: check your skin.
DRY: you will feel tight
OILY: it's oily and shiny... Duhh
COMBINATION: some places oily, some tight
NORMAL: comfortable yet not greasy
ACNE-PRONE: It's oily, dry/combo but covered with acne
Now, you know what your skin type is, here's a simple skin type guide for you:
DRY:
AVOID
- foaming cleansers
- clay/charcoal masks
- product that is high in alcohol
OILY:
AVOID
- Facial oil
- heavy cream
- scrubs
- Harsh, drying formula
COMBINATION:
AVOID
- Foaming cleansers
- Heavy moisturizers
- Clay mask
NORMAL:
AVOID
- Harsh cleanser
- Excessively drying products
- scrubs
ACNE-PRONE:
USE:
- Gentle cleansers
- Salicylic acid toner
- spot treatments
- hydrocolloid patches
This is the prime step to guide you in choosing your skincare. I'm sure there are many ways to know what is your skin type. This is just one of the way. And i like to make everything short so... if you want to know more, then take this skin quiz. Congratulation! You're one step closer to achieve your dream skin *ceh over je aku. Anyway, some ingredient/ product may not suitable for you. Go and make research for the ingredients first before trying it on. BACA BACA dan BACA! okay?!
Toodles! Love,
Ismazafirah
Toodles! Love,
Ismazafirah
Bila kita dengar ttg popia, mesti terbayang ada popia basah, popia kering dan yang terbaru, popia lasagnae. Tapi pernah tak korang dengar tentang popia yang disaluti kejumel lah chocomel lah - Kalau sek Ganu ni mesti pernah dengar, tapi org bukan Ganu mesti tak tahu tentang popia ni. Generally, popia ini disaluti oleh falvour kemanisan yang variety.
**WARNING POST INI MUNGKIN DIPENUHI OLEH KEMANISAN**
So... not long ago i craved for something sweet since it was cold and wet on that day. Then, as i was going through my Intagram story- kawan aku buat story pasal popis KT ni. First impression: "i need this :') " Nak pi tapi rasa malas pula sebab sejuk sejuk camni lah sedap tidur - craving sangat duk layan minum air chocolate cardbury tu jelah. Hilang lah sikit craving tu.
Selang 2 hari, i decided to go to popis KT. So....ini lah hasil aku beli - nampak cam meleleh kan air liur?
Selang 2 hari, i decided to go to popis KT. So....ini lah hasil aku beli - nampak cam meleleh kan air liur?
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| Flavour B chocoreo ( chocolate + oreo ) RM 4 |
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| Flavour B kejumel (Keju + Caramel) RM 4 |
Yang aku beli ini kotak kecil, dia ada set dia sendiri, kiranya banyak flavour lah. Tapi yang kotak kecil ni, boleh makan 1 flavour je. Kalau nak try banyak flavour, boleh ambil yang kotak besar. Meh sat aku bagi gambar menu dia supaya korang lagi jelas :-
*sila tekan di gambar di bawah untuk lebih jelas*
Harga untuk kotak besar ni range from RM 15 ke atas. Ada 27 biji dalam satu kotak tu. Not bad lah harga dia sesuai dengan bilangannya. Tapi max pilih flavour untuk satu kotak tu 5 saja boleh. Kalau korang nak berjimat tapi nak rasa gak popis ni, i suggest you beli yang biasa punya. Yang kotak kecil, ada 5 biji popis di dalam, and harga kurang dari RM10 (bergantung atas set yang dipilih) Okay, aku nak cerita dari segi rasa dia.
Di luar, ranggup, di dalam lembut - dalam popia tu ada pisang. Memang bunyi dia punya ranggup tu padu. Popia ni kalau makan awal2 masa selepas beli tu sedap lah. Kalau makan lambat2, nnti takde dah bunyi ranggup nya. Kalau tak percaya nah ni aku sertakan video sekali :-
Haaaa dengar tak bunyi kriuk kriuk tu. Korang kena terus makan lepas beli tu sebab kalau dibiarkan lama, first impression korang kat popis ni akan menurun sikit lah. Kena makan masa lepas beli, still panas, rangup, and sedap! Selepas selang beberapa hari, aku beli lagi popis ni. Aku beli yang kotak besar sebab nak try lagi banyak flavour. -
I forgot i bought which set of flavour but i think kotak besar 2 (Flavour A+B) RM 18. Yang aku beli tu ada 3 jenis flavour. Ada choconestum, peanut butter (i think so, i forgot) and chocomel. Yang cam putih tu choconestum, yang nampak kuning tu PB, yang selebihnya chocomel. In specifically, aku suka semua dlm kotak tu kecuali choconestum. Sebab aku kurang suka yang jenis serabut sebab nestum kan takde lah lekat mana kat badan popis yang disaluti cokelat tu. Nampak banyak kan nestum dia? So aku kurang suka sbb aku cepat kering tekak.
Overall aku boleh bagi 4.5/5 rating. Nak pergi beli lagi, tapi selalu cepat habis. So korang kena pergi awal kalau nak pergi try popis ni! Kedai popis KT ni dekat area Batu Rakit, Kuala Terengganu. Susah sikit nak cari sebab dalam kawasan kampung, and lorong nak masuk tu macam sempit sikit. Nak cari kedai ni, just search di Google : popis KT.
To be conclude:
Price : Kalau kotak kecil boleh dikira murah, kotak besar ni average lah takde lah mahal sangat
Range flavour: Variety, banyak boleh nak try and rasa
Rasa?: Rangup pada mula, lembik lama lama - manis (bukan untuk org yang kurang suka makanan manis), cepat muak, so kena kongsi dengan rakan rakan
Rating: 4.5/5 Selamat makan!
Love,
ismazafirah
Hey, hello, how are yaaah?
Do you guys think some people are gifted to be insanely genius? Have you ever met your classmate who always skips classes, in the dorm they always sleeping or spend most of their time playing games and YET they managed to score well in their tests? *sigh* It would be much easier if we were that kid right? To make it worse, i watched them just merely skimmed through their learning materials and scored pretty high, way better than me, who was always on the book, reading and taking notes and reads repeatedly. Needless to say, when i tried their "just skimming" method, i did worse than i expected.
Anyway, i've made this post for the people out there who have trouble in studying, who is unsure what study method is for you. Maybe, one of these study method is for you.Hopefully, this post might help you out :D
1. WRITING
CLASS : History class or other class that have a lot of information. Or any heavy materials like journals
WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE :
1. People who always tend to doze off while reading through textbooks
2. People who likes their own-word-note to review information
3. People who need to write/ outline to remember information
2. Group studyy
CLASS : Any subjects
WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE
1. People who need to teach and reinforce knowledge
2. People who are seeking a tutor
3. People who have knowledge as their priority and not socializing
4. Not a self-centered, and can cooperate well to discuss
3. SPEAKS OUT LOUD
ClASS : For any subjects that are heavy-materials such as history, biology.... etc
WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE
1. People who wants to remember and works by read and say out loud
2. People who is an auditory learner
3. People who prefer to revise their studies all by themselves, not surrounds with people
4. SOLVING PROBLEM
CLASS : Any subjects that requires solving problems like mathematics, chemistry and etc.... (numbers / equations)
WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE
1. Anyone
5. FLASHCARDS
CLASS : Language class (foreign), English (vocabs), anatomy HAHAHA or any subjects - this flashcards is suitable for memorizing key terms
WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE
1. People who likes simple and not messy
2. People who likes to do work fast
3. People who wants to memorize better anywhere, anytime.
I ain't an expert. I'm sure there are more study methods than what ive listed. I've listed what i've done so far in my life. If these method did not work out for you, It's okay, i'm sure it's not the end of all.At the end of the day, you will be able to sort out your study method and you should just go with what you think is the best for you! Have faith in yourself. Don't pressured yourself too much. It's okay, you've got this! xoxo
Do you guys think some people are gifted to be insanely genius? Have you ever met your classmate who always skips classes, in the dorm they always sleeping or spend most of their time playing games and YET they managed to score well in their tests? *sigh* It would be much easier if we were that kid right? To make it worse, i watched them just merely skimmed through their learning materials and scored pretty high, way better than me, who was always on the book, reading and taking notes and reads repeatedly. Needless to say, when i tried their "just skimming" method, i did worse than i expected.
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1. WRITING
CLASS : History class or other class that have a lot of information. Or any heavy materials like journals
WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE :
1. People who always tend to doze off while reading through textbooks
2. People who likes their own-word-note to review information
3. People who need to write/ outline to remember information
2. Group studyy
CLASS : Any subjects
WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE
1. People who need to teach and reinforce knowledge
2. People who are seeking a tutor
3. People who have knowledge as their priority and not socializing
4. Not a self-centered, and can cooperate well to discuss
3. SPEAKS OUT LOUD
ClASS : For any subjects that are heavy-materials such as history, biology.... etc
WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE
1. People who wants to remember and works by read and say out loud
2. People who is an auditory learner
3. People who prefer to revise their studies all by themselves, not surrounds with people
4. SOLVING PROBLEM
CLASS : Any subjects that requires solving problems like mathematics, chemistry and etc.... (numbers / equations)
WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE
1. Anyone
5. FLASHCARDS
CLASS : Language class (foreign), English (vocabs), anatomy HAHAHA or any subjects - this flashcards is suitable for memorizing key terms
WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE
1. People who likes simple and not messy
2. People who likes to do work fast
3. People who wants to memorize better anywhere, anytime.
I ain't an expert. I'm sure there are more study methods than what ive listed. I've listed what i've done so far in my life. If these method did not work out for you, It's okay, i'm sure it's not the end of all.At the end of the day, you will be able to sort out your study method and you should just go with what you think is the best for you! Have faith in yourself. Don't pressured yourself too much. It's okay, you've got this! xoxo
Ola! Some people have come and asked me how I memorize my notes. If you're that person like me that tends to study last minute, high-5 cs SAME. In some point in our life, we always have this lazy-procrastinator behavior to come and ruin our plan.
I admit that I tend to procrastinate and thus the last minute study but I don't encourage you guys to study last minute.It's stressful with overload of things to memorize. And yes, this ain't good for your brain. It is called cramming and it involves trying to memorize as much information as possible while only actually being able to encode some of the information as short-term memory. It does not help much as you'll unable to recall properly the information.
And this is why you need to do this:
1. Take notes
2. Do a 15-mins review each day
3. Schedule at the same time daily
4. Look over notes from all prev materials
So, to remember what u've study, you need to re-visit the material many times. Hence - 90% of your efforts on(moving forward) taking notes/ making it simple by using your own words. Then, put 10% effort (looking back) at what you previously studied. Take 15 mins daily to review the notes. Schedule the review time at the same time, daily to make it habit. Then, challenge yourself to recognize it.
Plus, try the scent method. Try to put a different perfumes on you or in your room whenever you study and wear the same perfume on the day you have your exams so that it will helps you to recall back the information psychologically. And... you'll prob heard this for a thousands times alr that it is important for you take enough sleep. Your brains needs to rests and....Sleep, as it turns out, is vital for memory consolidation, a process where a short-term memory is stabilized into a long-term one as features of that memory become more connected. So sleep lah so that the brain gets enough oxygen hence you'll be more alert.
Andddd yall needs to work on your time management more. If there's time to play PUBG then why there's no time for ya to study-- It's for your own good ya. Goodluck guys muah
I admit that I tend to procrastinate and thus the last minute study but I don't encourage you guys to study last minute.It's stressful with overload of things to memorize. And yes, this ain't good for your brain. It is called cramming and it involves trying to memorize as much information as possible while only actually being able to encode some of the information as short-term memory. It does not help much as you'll unable to recall properly the information.
And this is why you need to do this:
1. Take notes
2. Do a 15-mins review each day
3. Schedule at the same time daily
4. Look over notes from all prev materials
So, to remember what u've study, you need to re-visit the material many times. Hence - 90% of your efforts on(moving forward) taking notes/ making it simple by using your own words. Then, put 10% effort (looking back) at what you previously studied. Take 15 mins daily to review the notes. Schedule the review time at the same time, daily to make it habit. Then, challenge yourself to recognize it.
Plus, try the scent method. Try to put a different perfumes on you or in your room whenever you study and wear the same perfume on the day you have your exams so that it will helps you to recall back the information psychologically. And... you'll prob heard this for a thousands times alr that it is important for you take enough sleep. Your brains needs to rests and....Sleep, as it turns out, is vital for memory consolidation, a process where a short-term memory is stabilized into a long-term one as features of that memory become more connected. So sleep lah so that the brain gets enough oxygen hence you'll be more alert.
Andddd yall needs to work on your time management more. If there's time to play PUBG then why there's no time for ya to study-- It's for your own good ya. Goodluck guys muah
Hi. This post is about relationship- just to remind you that this post is not for how to stay in a relationship longer, it's about how do you know WHEN to end your relationship. It's the opposite of forever & ever, but this post might help some of you guys who needs some encouragement to sort out your feelings, to know when you should go. Have you ever feel your energy drained? You're the opposite of happy, always drowning, always fatigue and wants to be happy but you're unsure whether your decision is right or wrong. Maybe this post might help you out.
I know break ups are hard.The longer the relationship, the harder it is. Yes, all of us fantasize of a happy ending with our true love. But, is HE/SHE is the one? Well, not all relationships are meant to last forever. So, how do you know when it's time to go? Here are some of the signs that it's time for you to let go of the relationship and move on.
1. Most of your fav memories together - happened to be long time ago.
2. Most of the time you feel frustrated, hurt........
3. HE/SHE will back off/ gave the silent treatment when you talk about the hard stuff
4. Most of the time you've been constantly worries about your future with him/her with constantly "what if" in mind.
5. You feared that when you breaking up, you might be hurt.
6. You feared that when you're breaking up, might lead he/she to hurt themselves
7. You always feel alone, eventhough you're together.
8. He/she cut your ties with your friends because he/she is jealous ( too much )
9.You will feel unheard.
10. He/she emotionally abuse you. Abuse comes with many forms. Not just physical.
****** You can't change them to be what you want to be. It's not within your power to change that. You can doa to ease their feelings, and to keep both of you strong, but if it's meant to be, it will be.......However,you can change yourself! You have complete control over your own journey in life. There's always the other path for you to choose. Life is too short to be spent wondering of the "what ifs"...... If you need help, find the professionals( refer to psychiatric ). This might help your anxiety/ depressions/ and to preserve your mental health. Stay strong, you've got this!!
I know break ups are hard.The longer the relationship, the harder it is. Yes, all of us fantasize of a happy ending with our true love. But, is HE/SHE is the one? Well, not all relationships are meant to last forever. So, how do you know when it's time to go? Here are some of the signs that it's time for you to let go of the relationship and move on.
1. Most of your fav memories together - happened to be long time ago.
2. Most of the time you feel frustrated, hurt........
3. HE/SHE will back off/ gave the silent treatment when you talk about the hard stuff
4. Most of the time you've been constantly worries about your future with him/her with constantly "what if" in mind.
5. You feared that when you breaking up, you might be hurt.
6. You feared that when you're breaking up, might lead he/she to hurt themselves
7. You always feel alone, eventhough you're together.
8. He/she cut your ties with your friends because he/she is jealous ( too much )
9.You will feel unheard.
10. He/she emotionally abuse you. Abuse comes with many forms. Not just physical.
****** You can't change them to be what you want to be. It's not within your power to change that. You can doa to ease their feelings, and to keep both of you strong, but if it's meant to be, it will be.......However,you can change yourself! You have complete control over your own journey in life. There's always the other path for you to choose. Life is too short to be spent wondering of the "what ifs"...... If you need help, find the professionals( refer to psychiatric ). This might help your anxiety/ depressions/ and to preserve your mental health. Stay strong, you've got this!!
This is a post about friends, how to know they are real and to assure you, that it's okay being alone rather than having a fake company.You guys must have been familiar with that quote right?! Anyway, let's get started!
Enough lah berbahasa inggeris, mai bahasa melayu sikit baru ada feeling.
Bila kita dah makin berusia, makin menyelami kehidupan, kita dpt berpeluang untuk jumpa dengan pelbagai ragam manusia dalam hidup kita. Sesetengah tu jadi sebagai kenalan yg kita duk hi hi bye bye atau omputeh duk panggil acquaintance lah utk kenalan ni haha. Dlm kenalan tu kita boleh decide nak pilih whether nak masukkan kenalan tu dlm inner circle kita and jadikan kawan or tak.
Bila dh masuk bab kawan, mesti lh ada pelbagai jenis dan ragam kan? Mestilah kita pilih kawan yang best untuk bila spend masa bersama, in other word 'masuk air' lah. However, nak tahu dia tu real friends atau tak, ambil masa lama sikit lah utk expose diri dia yang sebenar. Yes, mmg seronok bila dapat jumpa orang baru dalam hidup, tambah kenalan, tambah circle dalam hidup.
TAPI, hang rasa apa bila ada ngan depa? Hg rasa happy ka bila ngan depa or rasa awkward/ down? Kawan hang tu jenis yang jaga kau bila hang sakit malam jumaat ka or pi tgok wayang ramai-ramai, tinggal hang sorg di rumah? Or bila kau buat salah, did they go around, telling people about awful things you did or they will stand beside you, and bravely point out your mistakes dan nasihat? K pikir sendiri.
*Google photo*
Aku dah jumpa banyak jenis manusia. Banyak ragam manusia. Nasib aku jenis boleh baca orang , so boleh jauhkan diri sesiap dari yang palsu dari ori ni. Depa boleh buat kawan, tapi bukan untuk masa tua kita, bukan untuk di kongsi cerita atau sebagainya. Go and make friends, tapi tahu limit juga.
So ni aku akan listkan 2 jenis kawan yang hg patut cherish:
1.Able to listen
Dalam art of communication, mesti kena ada persona yang cakap, dan yang mendengar. Dan dlm komunikasi ni jga, ada yang okay dan tak ok. Kita sendiri mesti dh tahu yang mana satu communication yg tak ok kan? Dah tau and mesti dah boleh baca org tu bila dia actually listen to us atau tgh tunggu nak potong ayat kita. Observe body langguage tu. Kalau depa potong ayat/ try ubah conversation/ duk main phone, tu bukan kawan yang baik pun. A true friend akan focus kat hang, hg duk nak rant , depa diam and biarkan hg nak luah dlu. baru bagi nasihat kalau dia nak bagi. Bukan jenis tak care and tak hormat masa hg tgh duk luah masalah.
2. Keikhlasan
Yang ni senang je nak tgok. Bila hg buat salah, depa akan point out kesalahan hang kat hang sendiri. Diaorg akan jujur, dengan apa depa rasa kat hg. Berbeza pula dgn yang bukan real friend, kalau kau buat salah, depa akan senyum ja depan-depan. Di belakang, hanya Tuhan saja yang tahu, bertambah lah pahala kat hampa hahaha. A true friend akan jujur and point out kesalahan kau. Kalau ada kawan yg jenis cmni, cherish lah depa ni. Bila depa jujur, bermaksud diaorg care pasal friendship korang and korang ni penting bg dia.
Ha, tak banyak pun aku list. Ni pun dh cukup nak tahu mana kawan yang baik atau buruk. Nasihat aku, Buat lah baik pada semua. Jadilah kawan yg baik untuk sesiapa, tapi tahu limit kau. Ada masa, masalah kita tak perlu di cerita. Kena tgok dlu siapa yg kawan atau lawan. It's okay to keep your circle small, jangan kau malu ada masa kau akan keseorangan. It's better than having toxic people in life. Bila kau rasa sorang, ingat Tuhan tu selalu ada dengan kau, family pun ada care kat kau.
Hidup tak semestinya kena sentiasa dikelilingi org. Ada masa kita perlu masa sendiri. Diri kita pun perlu disayangi! Take care of yourself! xoxo
Enough lah berbahasa inggeris, mai bahasa melayu sikit baru ada feeling.
Bila kita dah makin berusia, makin menyelami kehidupan, kita dpt berpeluang untuk jumpa dengan pelbagai ragam manusia dalam hidup kita. Sesetengah tu jadi sebagai kenalan yg kita duk hi hi bye bye atau omputeh duk panggil acquaintance lah utk kenalan ni haha. Dlm kenalan tu kita boleh decide nak pilih whether nak masukkan kenalan tu dlm inner circle kita and jadikan kawan or tak.
Bila dh masuk bab kawan, mesti lh ada pelbagai jenis dan ragam kan? Mestilah kita pilih kawan yang best untuk bila spend masa bersama, in other word 'masuk air' lah. However, nak tahu dia tu real friends atau tak, ambil masa lama sikit lah utk expose diri dia yang sebenar. Yes, mmg seronok bila dapat jumpa orang baru dalam hidup, tambah kenalan, tambah circle dalam hidup.
TAPI, hang rasa apa bila ada ngan depa? Hg rasa happy ka bila ngan depa or rasa awkward/ down? Kawan hang tu jenis yang jaga kau bila hang sakit malam jumaat ka or pi tgok wayang ramai-ramai, tinggal hang sorg di rumah? Or bila kau buat salah, did they go around, telling people about awful things you did or they will stand beside you, and bravely point out your mistakes dan nasihat? K pikir sendiri.
Aku dah jumpa banyak jenis manusia. Banyak ragam manusia. Nasib aku jenis boleh baca orang , so boleh jauhkan diri sesiap dari yang palsu dari ori ni. Depa boleh buat kawan, tapi bukan untuk masa tua kita, bukan untuk di kongsi cerita atau sebagainya. Go and make friends, tapi tahu limit juga.
So ni aku akan listkan 2 jenis kawan yang hg patut cherish:
1.Able to listen
Dalam art of communication, mesti kena ada persona yang cakap, dan yang mendengar. Dan dlm komunikasi ni jga, ada yang okay dan tak ok. Kita sendiri mesti dh tahu yang mana satu communication yg tak ok kan? Dah tau and mesti dah boleh baca org tu bila dia actually listen to us atau tgh tunggu nak potong ayat kita. Observe body langguage tu. Kalau depa potong ayat/ try ubah conversation/ duk main phone, tu bukan kawan yang baik pun. A true friend akan focus kat hang, hg duk nak rant , depa diam and biarkan hg nak luah dlu. baru bagi nasihat kalau dia nak bagi. Bukan jenis tak care and tak hormat masa hg tgh duk luah masalah.
2. Keikhlasan
Yang ni senang je nak tgok. Bila hg buat salah, depa akan point out kesalahan hang kat hang sendiri. Diaorg akan jujur, dengan apa depa rasa kat hg. Berbeza pula dgn yang bukan real friend, kalau kau buat salah, depa akan senyum ja depan-depan. Di belakang, hanya Tuhan saja yang tahu, bertambah lah pahala kat hampa hahaha. A true friend akan jujur and point out kesalahan kau. Kalau ada kawan yg jenis cmni, cherish lah depa ni. Bila depa jujur, bermaksud diaorg care pasal friendship korang and korang ni penting bg dia.
Ha, tak banyak pun aku list. Ni pun dh cukup nak tahu mana kawan yang baik atau buruk. Nasihat aku, Buat lah baik pada semua. Jadilah kawan yg baik untuk sesiapa, tapi tahu limit kau. Ada masa, masalah kita tak perlu di cerita. Kena tgok dlu siapa yg kawan atau lawan. It's okay to keep your circle small, jangan kau malu ada masa kau akan keseorangan. It's better than having toxic people in life. Bila kau rasa sorang, ingat Tuhan tu selalu ada dengan kau, family pun ada care kat kau.
Hidup tak semestinya kena sentiasa dikelilingi org. Ada masa kita perlu masa sendiri. Diri kita pun perlu disayangi! Take care of yourself! xoxo
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